Hey, I’m Charlene Byars! In my life I have experienced it all – from great personal and professional victories to times where I felt completely defeated, and everything in between.
There is one thing I know for sure: when a woman feels empowered, she feels joy.
Watch the 60-second video below to learn more about me.
“If you want to make a change and find that love of your life, then Charlene’s your gal.
She understands relationships and she understands women like nobody I have ever met! I feel like I'm a very empowered woman after taking her program!”
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Leading Relationship Expert
Certified Empowerment Coach
Women’s Revolutionary Mentor
For over 25 years, I've coached 100s of women on how to find their person, heal from a past break-up, and level up their relationship with themselves and their lover.
But I wasn’t always an expert.
When I was little, all I saw were toxic relationships with controlling, dominant men.
So of course, those were the type of guys I continued to attract!
No one showed me what it was like to be in a healthy & loving relationship, so I spent years begging for scraps of love and respect from anyone who would give it to me.
I even spent 23-years married to the wrong man because I believed that if I could just work hard at changing myself, that would be enough to change HIM. (Spoiler alert: it wasn’t).
After I finally got the courage to end that marriage, I set out on my own journey to find my epic love.
I wanted to know it was possible for me to be in a kind and fun relationship where both the man and the woman felt loved and respected.
But I also knew, if I wanted to attract a different kind of relationship, then I needed to do something different.
So, I started shifting my perspective...
Once I looked inwards and started tapping into my feminine power, that’s when it all came together for me.
Today, I'm remarried to the most amazing man and I have the relationship of my dreams. I have a strong bond with my children and my two bonus kids. And I'm living a life of pleasure and fulfillment!
Throughout the process, here’s what I learned:
- When it comes to love, it's up to YOU to look inwards and decide who you want to attract.
- It’s up to YOU to determine what type of relationship you want to be in and how you want the relationship to go.
- It's up to YOU to show up with kindness and to teach people how you want to be treated.
- As the woman, YOU have the power to change your relationship.
As a successful, high-achieving woman, you have your shizz together.
Your career is thriving, you’re financially independent, you’re surrounded by a wonderful community (and maybe even a couple of kids).
But when it comes to men and relationships? Pfft.
You’re trying your best to put yourself out there.
You’re downloading dating apps, attending meet-up groups, dressing up for happy hours, and doing EVERYTHING you can to find your person.
But no matter what you do, the only guys you seem to attract are:
- The ghosters who keep you waiting for a text that’ll never come
- The losers who can’t seem to get their act together
- The narcissists whose egos are the size of America AND Africa combined
- The players who string you along
- The boring bros who make you prefer staying home alone
Even if you manage to get into a relationship, deep down you know you’re not leveling up.
❌ You struggle to communicate your needs & desires because, if you’re honest, you’re confused about what you really want.
❌ You’re afraid to advocate for yourself in case it turns him off, so you blow things off instead of speaking up.
❌ You’re scared to be vulnerable and show the real you in case you get hurt…so you shut him out and end up losing him anyways.
❌ And once again, you’re left with the sting of yet another broken relationship.
The more this frustrating cycle repeats, the more you find yourself torn between:
I really want to share my life with someone.
F*ck that - I’m too independent to need a man anyway!
Why do you need a coach?
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Sometimes we find ourselves fully in our power in one area, but not in others. When we find ourselves in that place, sometimes a new perspective is exactly what we need. By looking at our life through a different lens, we can actually make a choice about how that area looks to us. We no longer have to be locked into a perspective that doesn’t serve us.
I have coached many, many women and I have seen it all.
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It’s my job to hold space for you, while you move through the spaces of empowerment. Whether it’s old patterns that you want to be free of, or old beliefs that need to be let go of, I am here assist you in finding your true joy. Because there is no reason for you to live any other way than how you truly want your life to be.
I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life.
So much of who I am today and the confidence and the freedom I feel and the pleasure I’m having is because of Charlene.
Before taking Charlene‘s program I felt completely disempowered and had no confidence in dating and I was attracting the same type of guy.
After her program it all completely changed for me. Charlene is brilliant and seriously is the best coach ever! I feel completely empowered in who I am. I now love dating and meeting new people and am having the time of my life. Now that I understand the secrets to being an empowered single woman, I absolutely love being me!
If you are considering working with Charlene, don’t hesitate and GO FOR IT! You will get exactly what you need and so much more! Thank you, Charlene, for completely igniting my life! I’m forever grateful!
I have fallen in love with myself.
Because of Charlene I now see life as I am. And it is beautiful because for the first time in my entire life, I have actually fallen in love with myself! I am free. I am happy. I love life. I am finally living!
If you're ever kind of thinking about taking one of Charlene’s courses or hiring her as an empowerment coach, do it!
I swear to you, she will change your life forever. She will take you off the life support you've been clinging to your whole life and you will start to breathe on your own for the first time.
I adore you, Charlene! I am forever grateful to you for helping me breathe again.